From the time we are very young we learn simple math. 2+2=4. 5+5=10. 7-4=3. We look at these problems now and say they are quite easy to solve. In fact, we could probably give the answers in our sleep. I wonder though, how else have we been taught to solve problems from a very young age? Specifically, when talking about contentment, is the issue resolved by addition or subtraction?
When someone is discontent addition is often thought to be the solution. “If I just had such and such then I would be content.” “My condition is so low that it needs addition to be content.” My one-year-old son’s discontentment is often taken care of by addition. He cries, we give him something, and he stops. What if we learned that contentment is not gained so much by addition but by subtraction.
This is exactly what Jeremiah Burroughs states as he unfolds the mystery of contentment in his book The Rare Jewel of Christian Contentment.
A Christian comes to contentment, not so much by way of addition, as by way of subtraction.
It makes sense to us that contentment would be received from addition. How then can it be attained through subtraction? Burroughs makes the statement that it is, “not by adding more to his condition; but rather by subtracting from his desires, so as to make his desires and his circumstances even and equal.” These desires are worldly desires, not heavenly, God-honoring desires. We need to associate these kinds of desires with greed, selfishness, and pride. How often do we think we deserve more? How often do we think we deserve better? These thoughts only lead to discontentment in our lives.
The world is infinitely deceived in thinking that contentment lies in having more than we already have. Here lies the bottom root of all contentment, when there is an evenness and proportion between our hearts and our circumstances.
Our prayer must be that our heart would be brought down to our circumstances. Then there is contentment with little and with affliction. Our desires must find their satisfaction in the Lord Jesus Christ. What else do we think would bring us satisfaction in this world?
Thus the gracious heart thinks in this way: “The Lord has been pleased to bring down my circumstances; now if the Lord brings down my heart and makes it equal to my circumstances, then I am well enough.”